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Don’t pick up the rope


“How do I stop responding impulsively when my kids backchat?”   Every parent leant forward in anticipation when a mum asked this question in a recent parenting seminar.   I responded, “Picture a rope thrown on the ground...then decide to leave it there.”   Let me explain.   Some years back, one of my children developed the habit of answering back, delivering a smart comeback or issuing a challenge to even my most reasonable request.   “Can you empty the rubbish bin?”   “Maybe!”   “Can you help your sister with her homework?”   “Why?”   You get the picture!   One day I asked her to walk the dog. She responded, “Why me?”     Something weird happened. I pictured her challenge as a rope being thrown ...(sign-up as a member to continue reading this article)


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