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Know when to say NO to teenagers


Two mums came to me and they were sweating over a decision they had to make. No, they were fretting over a decision. Their daughters, both just turned 13, had asked for permission to go on a Saturday night party bus with over forty 16 and 17 year olds.    A party bus is a nightclub-on-wheels for young people. There is supervision and it is promoted as alcohol-free but they can be dodgy. The mums knew little about it.   The two girls put huge pressure on their mothers to let them go – pester power was alive and well in their homes in the preceding days.  Both mums admitted that the alarm bells were ringing and they didn’t feel good about letting their daughters girls go on the party bus!  It was the first time they had been put on the spot in such a way so they sought my advice.   My response was simple and straight-forward &n...(sign-up as a member to continue reading this article)


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